Use this 4 Step Challenge to get Unstuck and Finally start Pursuing the Life you want
Discover what’s been keeping you stuck from the past AND get clear on what needs your attention so you can stop circling the same problems to finally move forward.
Yes, I'm Ready to Start →
Your 30-day Not Mine to Carry challenge includes:
- 4 weekly Masterclasses to guide your journey
- Self paced, online
- Weekly research + reflection work
- Your Ancestral Map + action plan
- Want more? Go deeper and add a 1-1 coaching, mentoring with me and ask questions as you uncover information
You’re here because you know there’s more for you..
You may already be intuitive. You may have had psychic experiences, signs, dreams, feelings or moments where you just knew something without knowing how.
You might even work psychically, as a healer or a medium and find it easier to receive information for other people than yourself.
Yet when it comes to your own life, things can feel very different.
You second guess what you sense.
You don’t know whether it’s your intuition or your own thoughts.
You know when something doesn’t feel right, but you’re not always clear on what that means or what needs your attention.
And the more you try to work it all out, the more everything can start to feel unclear.
You may start questioning your direction, your spiritual development, what you should be focusing on and why you still feel like something is missing.
You know there’s more for you. You just don’t know what that “more” is yet
What if YOU'RE the cycle breaker in your family line?
Have you ever noticed the same patterns running through generations?
Relationship breakdowns that keep repeating.
Money made, lost, made and lost again.
Abuse, violence, loss or misfortune appearing throughout the family story.
Generations who lived through poverty, hunger or scarcity, while you still struggle with having, keeping or trusting there will be enough.
At some point, someone starts asking why.
What happened before me?
What was passed down?
What am I still carrying?
Maybe that someone is you.
YES, I'M READY TO START →
She finally has somewhere to look
“I’ve known for a while that there are things I’m carrying that don’t feel like me, but I haven’t known how to find where they came from. This has given me somewhere to actually start looking and identify what’s there, rather than just knowing something doesn’t feel right.”
Sheena, New Zealand
You can’t change a pattern you can't see
Not Mine to Carry guides you to start investigating your family line.
You’ll look at the people who came before you, what they lived through, the patterns and responsibilities that followed, and where those threads may be showing up in your life today.
Not to blame - that's not helpful.
But to see what you couldn’t see before.
And decide where your work needs to begin.
It’s time to investigate your family line
Not Mine to Carry gives you a structured place to start.
Over 30 days, you’ll look back through your lineage, explore what your ancestors lived through and start identifying the patterns, trauma and responsibilities that may have travelled through your family.
This is where you start connecting the dots.
Yes, I'm Ready to Start →What happens inside
Across three live classes, we explore intuition, psychic ability and mediumship through practical exercises, with me there mentoring you.
You begin to understand how you receive information, where you trust it, where you question it and what happens when you stop trying to get it “right”.
Practical exercises to develop your intuition, psychic ability and mediumship
Work with different exercises and techniques to explore how you naturally sense, receive and interpret information, while developing your abilities through practice.
Real time mentoring and guidance to deepen your understanding
Be mentored as you practice, so you can understand your intuitive, psychic and mediumship experiences, ask questions and deepen your knowledge through what you’re actually experiencing.
Discover where the real blocks are in your development
Start to recognise where you’re getting stuck, what you’re second-guessing, and where your personal growth needs attention so you can understand what has actually been holding your development back.
"It makes a huge subject feel structured
“When you first look at your whole family line, it feels like there’s so much to go through. But once you start mapping it and get into the rhythm, it becomes really simple. Having it all there in front of you gives you something you can keep coming back to and building on.”
Helen, Western Australia
This is only the beginning..
After 30 days, you won’t just know more about your family history.
You’ll have your own Ancestral Map showing what you’ve uncovered, the patterns you’ve noticed, the questions that remain and where you may want to look deeper.
Keep building it. Keep investigating it.
Or bring it to me and let’s look at what comes.
This is the perfect tool to identify what is not yours to carry. The real work begins in your steps afterwards.
This challenge is for people who...
- feel exhausted carrying the weight of everyone and their else’s expectations
- overthink everything and still don’t trust themselves
- are stuck in repeating patterns they can’t explain
- want depth, safety, and real tools not just theory
- know there's something deeper but can't quite put your finger on it
- want to explore your genealogical history and inherited trauma
If you’re ready to finally put down what isn’t yours, this is where you start.
Yes, I'm Ready to Start →What This Challenge Is (and Isn’t)
This is real work. It’s structured, guided, and safe but you’ll still need to show up and do it.
Your Investment
$9 USD
Your 30-day Not Mine to Carry challenge includes:
- 4 weekly Masterclasses to guide your journey
- Self paced, online
- Weekly research + reflection work
- Your Ancestral Map + action plan
- Want more? Go deeper and add a 1-1 coaching, mentoring with me and ask questions as you uncover information
“This immediately made me think beyond my own family line. I started questioning the influence of my in-laws and step-family too, and how those family dynamics may have impacted me. It opened up a much bigger picture of what I want to investigate.”
Dawn, Mauritius
Why I can guide you through this work
MEDIUM | TEACHER OF PERSONAL EVOLUTION & SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT | COACH + MENTOR
Hello there, I'm Sunita
I’ve spent over two decades guiding women through their personal growth and spiritual development, combining mediumship, psychic insight, somatic tools, and coaching to look beyond what's happening on the surface.
I’ve worked with women who know there’s something deeper beneath the patterns they keep experiencing.
Because sometimes the story in front of you isn’t the whole story.
We've explored repeated relationship breakdowns, abuse and violence within their family line, patterns around money and business, loss, scarcity, responsibility and experiences that seem to echo through generations.
I don’t approach ancestral work from the belief that everything happening in your life must have come from an ancestor.
We investigate. We look at what you know. We look at what happened in your family.
We ask better questions.
I created Not Mine to Carry because you don’t need to begin this work by having all the answers.
You need to know where to start.
FAQ's
What if I don’t know all of my family history?
Can I ask questions as I go?
Is this live or self-paced?
How much time will I need?
What if I can’t find a connection?
What if I uncover something difficult?
Will I clear my ancestral patterns in 30 days?
What happens after the 30 days?
You don’t need to keep carrying what was never yours.
Maybe you're the one who finally looks ends the cycle.
You can keep trying to understand everything through the story of your own life.
Or you can start asking what happened before you.
If you’re ready to investigate your family line, start here.
Yes, I'm Ready Now →